Forefront Stories - Phil Dickens
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Stories from our Congregation: Phil Dickens
After a lifetime of conservative churches, I never felt fully at home until Forefront,.
I was a really rebellious teenager, but I ran into the Jesus movement back in 1972, that totally changed me and that’s how I ended up in a charismatic bible college in Florida. I left there because I ran out of money. I would occasionally go back to church but there was too much that bothered me, I was also working 80-100 hours a week in the restaurant as a chef and manager.
“I got really depressed, drank way too much, and out of sheer desperation I wandered into a coffee shop that was also a church…”
I spent four years in the Army, most of that time in Germany. After a stint in New Jersey, I was a bartender on Amtrak for a few years and lived in Philly, where I got into Wiccanism -- you can find local cable footage of me discussing Wicca -- and managed a brand new restaurant on South Street that did really well for a summer. That was in 2001. After 9/11 happened, I got really depressed, drank way too much, and out of sheer desperation I wandered into a coffee shop that was also a church and decided to try things one more time. I realized I needed a religion that was about love, not just about me.
“I ended up in a shelter, homeless, and then found out I was eligible for Veteran Affairs (VA) care and housing…”
When I couldn’t quit drinking, the pastor got me to Brooklyn for Teen Challenge Rehab. It was very right-wing, very legalistic, although it worked; after that, I worked at Times Square Church and then in restaurants. And then in the beginning of 2013, I couldn’t work anymore because my back went out. I ended up in a shelter, homeless, and then found out I was eligible for Veteran Affairs (VA) care and housing, which was miraculous as I was trying to figure out how to get neck surgery on my spine while living in a homeless shelter. This apartment was also two blocks from VA hospital in Gramercy, Manhattan. I was looking for a church and wandered into Gramercy Theater on a Sunday morning, which is how I found Forefront Manhattan which led me to Forefront Brooklyn when that closed.
It just made me realize it was okay to believe and think the way I do, without having to agree to a bunch of dogma and hate all the right people.
It was a revelation and permission to feel what I felt for a long, long time. There is a lot of love here -- we don’t just talk, we really act. I was already moving in a more progressive direction but I felt pretty alone. It just made me realize it was okay to believe and think the way I do, without having to agree to a bunch of dogma and hate all the right people. The freedom to think for yourself - most churches don't talk about that. I was able to get involved and feel valued and appreciated. It’s become a spiritual home which I never had before.
At Forefront, I can just be Phil.
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